{"id":2375,"date":"2013-12-24T14:45:42","date_gmt":"2013-12-24T19:45:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/dancingcavy.com\/mysterisa\/?p=2375"},"modified":"2013-12-24T14:45:43","modified_gmt":"2013-12-24T19:45:43","slug":"the-other-side","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/dancingcavy.com\/mysterisa\/2013\/12\/24\/the-other-side\/","title":{"rendered":"The Other Side"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"attachment_2376\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"http:\/\/dancingcavy.com\/mysterisa\/2013\/12\/24\/the-other-side\/howsthis-11-29-13\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-2376\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-2376\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/dancingcavy.com\/mysterisa\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/HowsThis-11-29-13-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"&quot;I submit you you, alpha leader.  LOL!&quot;\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-2376\" srcset=\"http:\/\/dancingcavy.com\/mysterisa\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/HowsThis-11-29-13-300x200.jpg 300w, http:\/\/dancingcavy.com\/mysterisa\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/HowsThis-11-29-13-150x100.jpg 150w, http:\/\/dancingcavy.com\/mysterisa\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/HowsThis-11-29-13.jpg 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-2376\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">&#8220;I submit you you, alpha leader.  LOL!&#8221;<\/p><\/div>\n<p>I remember, before I switched over to positive reinforcement-focused training, laughing when I thought about not ever correcting a dog or telling them &#8220;No.&#8221;  I couldn&#8217;t understand how on Earth that would work.  While I was debating the thought of &#8220;positive only&#8221; training, a friend shared with me an example from a seminar attended by Suzanne Clothier.  The presenter was discussing positive reinforcement-based training and Suzanne agreed to &#8220;play the dog&#8221; with this trainer.  As the trainer began to work with Suzanne, Suzanne got up and left the room.  When the trainer got upset and questioned Suzanne about leaving, she replied &#8220;You didn&#8217;t tell me not to.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>At the time, I read this as justification for using corrections when training dogs.  After all, the dog <i>does<\/i> need to know the boundaries and rules you expect.  The dog does need to comply with your wishes to a point.  So corrections and &#8220;No&#8221; are necessary in dog training.<\/p>\n<p>Then I &#8220;drank the Kool-Aid&#8221; and switched over to a very different style of training and set of beliefs.  \ud83d\ude42  In doing so, I see what Suzanne did in a very different light.  Yes, you do need to be clear to your dog what the rules of the house (or training game) are.  But that doesn&#8217;t justify the use of corrections.  Simply that you must give the dog more information.<\/p>\n<p>For example, if you see your toddler putting a fork into the electrical outlet, you can scream &#8220;NO!&#8221; which doesn&#8217;t really tell him anything.  &#8220;No&#8221; what?  As I&#8217;ve written before, &#8220;No&#8221; is a very abstract concept.  It&#8217;s much easier (for dogs and humans) to be clear.  &#8220;Honey, keep the fork away from the electrical outlet.  It&#8217;s dangerous.&#8221;  While it&#8217;s true that the toddler might not understand the implications of what you&#8217;ve said 100%, you&#8217;ve given him more information about WHY he shouldn&#8217;t do what he was doing.  You might even suggest he play with another toy rather than the fork.<\/p>\n<p>I think it&#8217;s important to do the same with dogs.  Rather than simply telling them not to do something, tell them what you&#8217;d like them to do instead.  Using Suzanne&#8217;s example of leaving the training session, if your dog starts to leave you could tell them to &#8220;come!&#8221;  You&#8217;re giving them information.  Something to do instead.  And something you can reward.  (Of course, if your dog is continually leaving your training sessions, you might want to re-evaluate what you&#8217;re doing!)  No need to punish here!<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s amazing how the same thing can be interpreted two different ways depending on your point of view at the time.  \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I remember, before I switched over to positive reinforcement-focused training, laughing when I thought about not ever correcting a dog or telling them &#8220;No.&#8221; I couldn&#8217;t understand how on Earth that would work. 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