{"id":1277,"date":"2011-08-17T19:39:14","date_gmt":"2011-08-18T00:39:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/dancingcavy.com\/mysterisa\/?p=1277"},"modified":"2011-08-17T19:39:15","modified_gmt":"2011-08-18T00:39:15","slug":"its-not-you-its-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/dancingcavy.com\/mysterisa\/2011\/08\/17\/its-not-you-its-me\/","title":{"rendered":"It&#8217;s Not You.  It&#8217;s Me!"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"attachment_1278\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"http:\/\/dancingcavy.com\/mysterisa\/2011\/08\/17\/its-not-you-its-me\/heeling-3-17-11-2\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-1278\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1278\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/dancingcavy.com\/mysterisa\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/08\/Heeling-3-17-11-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"Heeling--3-17-11\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-1278\" srcset=\"http:\/\/dancingcavy.com\/mysterisa\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/08\/Heeling-3-17-11-300x200.jpg 300w, http:\/\/dancingcavy.com\/mysterisa\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/08\/Heeling-3-17-11-150x100.jpg 150w, http:\/\/dancingcavy.com\/mysterisa\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/08\/Heeling-3-17-11.jpg 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-1278\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Heeling with focus.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>It&#8217;s like one of those bad breakup lines but, in this case, it&#8217;s true!  \ud83d\ude09  While I do still believe Risa&#8217;s occasional lack of focus while heeling has its roots in her hypervigilance and fear, I recently realized that it&#8217;s also my fault.  I reward her for losing focus all the time.  It&#8217;s just that, until a week ago, I didn&#8217;t even notice that I was doing it.  (THIS is a perfect example of why it&#8217;s vital to have a knowledgeable someone watching you train.  They will catch these mistakes before you make bad habits out of them.)  Once I stepped back and thought about it, however, I knew I&#8217;d been doing this all along.  Even if Risa looks away while heeling, I still choose to reward her.  Even if I have to keep moving and wait for her to look back or, even worse, call her back to attention.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_1283\" style=\"width: 210px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"http:\/\/dancingcavy.com\/mysterisa\/2011\/08\/17\/its-not-you-its-me\/rightsideheel-6-5-11\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-1283\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1283\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/dancingcavy.com\/mysterisa\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/08\/RightSideHeel-6-5-11-200x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"RightSideHeel--6-5-11\" width=\"200\" height=\"300\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-1283\" srcset=\"http:\/\/dancingcavy.com\/mysterisa\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/08\/RightSideHeel-6-5-11-200x300.jpg 200w, http:\/\/dancingcavy.com\/mysterisa\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/08\/RightSideHeel-6-5-11-100x150.jpg 100w, http:\/\/dancingcavy.com\/mysterisa\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/08\/RightSideHeel-6-5-11.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 200px) 100vw, 200px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-1283\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Exactly what I want.  And, now that I&#039;ve realized my error, I can hopefully start to get it more often!<\/p><\/div>\n<p>At this point, I should know better!  I mean, I just talked about how I utilize what Kathy Sdao taught me about stopping if your dog misses\/misinterprets a cue.  Yet I&#8217;ve never actually applied it when we&#8217;re working on heelwork.  Even though my goal is to have eye contact part of the final heeling picture, I am doing a poor job attaining it.  When I cue &#8220;fu<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s like one of those bad breakup lines but, in this case, it&#8217;s true! \ud83d\ude09 While I do still believe Risa&#8217;s occasional lack of focus while heeling has its roots in her hypervigilance and fear, I recently realized that it&#8217;s &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/dancingcavy.com\/mysterisa\/2011\/08\/17\/its-not-you-its-me\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[5,8,9,6],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/dancingcavy.com\/mysterisa\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1277"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/dancingcavy.com\/mysterisa\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/dancingcavy.com\/mysterisa\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/dancingcavy.com\/mysterisa\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/dancingcavy.com\/mysterisa\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1277"}],"version-history":[{"count":10,"href":"http:\/\/dancingcavy.com\/mysterisa\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1277\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1289,"href":"http:\/\/dancingcavy.com\/mysterisa\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1277\/revisions\/1289"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/dancingcavy.com\/mysterisa\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1277"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/dancingcavy.com\/mysterisa\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1277"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/dancingcavy.com\/mysterisa\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1277"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}